Benny Blanco reflects on the time he got jealous and Tearfully Reacted to Selena Gomez and her longtime friend Edgar Ramirez romantically dancing to “Espresso” at Sabrina Carpenter’s concert

In a candid moment of vulnerability, music producer Benny Blanco recently opened up about an emotional incident that caught him off guard. The 37-year-old hitmaker, known for his chart-topping collaborations, reflected on a night that stirred unexpected jealousy when his girlfriend, Selena Gomez, shared a romantic dance with her longtime friend, actor Edgar Ramirez, during Sabrina Carpenter’s concert. The song? Carpenter’s infectious summer anthem, “Espresso.”

The scene unfolded at one of Carpenter’s electrifying live performances, where Gomez, 32, and Ramirez, 48, were spotted swaying together in the crowd. Videos circulating online captured the duo laughing and moving effortlessly to the beat, their chemistry undeniable as they vibed to the catchy lyrics: “I’m working late, ‘cause I’m a singer.”

For Gomez and Ramirez, who have maintained a close friendship for years, the moment seemed innocent enough—a carefree celebration of music and camaraderie. But for Blanco, watching from the sidelines, it struck a deeper chord.

In a recent interview, Blanco admitted that seeing Gomez and Ramirez dance so intimately sparked an unexpected wave of insecurity. “I don’t know what came over me,” he confessed with a sheepish grin. “Selena and Edgar go way back, and I know they’re just friends. But something about the way they moved together to ‘Espresso’—it hit me hard. I got jealous, and yeah, I’ll admit it, there were some tears.”

The “Eastside” producer, who has been dating Gomez since mid-2023, described the moment as a rare glimpse into his own vulnerabilities. “I’m not usually the jealous type,” he said. “But seeing her with someone she’s so comfortable with, laughing and dancing like that—it messed with my head.

I had to step away for a minute to process it.” Blanco’s emotional reaction didn’t go unnoticed by Gomez, who later reassured him of their bond, reminding him that her friendship with Ramirez is purely platonic.

Sources close to the couple say Gomez found Blanco’s tearful response endearing, even if it caught her by surprise. “Selena thought it was sweet that Benny cared so much,” an insider shared. “She’s always been upfront about her friendship with Edgar, and she made sure Benny knew nothing was going on. They laughed about it afterward.”

For Blanco, the incident became a moment of self-reflection. “I’m secure in what we have,” he said of his relationship with Gomez. “But I’m human, you know? Sometimes your heart does dumb stuff your brain can’t explain. I think it’s because I love her so much—it just sneaks up on you like that.”

He even poked fun at himself, adding, “Next time, I’m jumping in and dancing with them. No more crying in the corner!”

The couple, who have been inseparable since going public, have often gushed about their connection. Gomez recently called Blanco “my heart” on social media, while he’s praised her as his muse both in and out of the studio. Their relationship, built on mutual respect and creative synergy, has weathered its share of public scrutiny—but this small hiccup at Carpenter’s concert only seems to have brought them closer.

As for Ramirez, the Jungle Cruise actor remains a steadfast friend to Gomez, with no indication of anything beyond their years-long bond. The trio’s paths may cross again soon, as Gomez and Blanco continue to support Carpenter’s rising stardom—perhaps with Blanco ready to join the dance floor this time.

In the end, Blanco’s tearful reaction to “Espresso” might just be another verse in the love story he’s writing with Gomez—one where jealousy fades, and the music keeps playing.